2010岁末致友人
亲爱的朋友：
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很抱歉，新年已经开始好几天了，这封“岁末致友人”还没有发出来。怎么说，这封信都应该是年前写更合题意的，可惜从12月17日开始，我们因为女儿搬迁，东跑西颠，压根儿没有机会静下来。今天坐在电脑屏幕前，我私下安慰自己，亡羊补牢，补写还是比什么都不写好些。窗外，邻居家门前的节日彩灯依稀可见。希望今晚能在彩灯暗淡之前把这份年度报告写完。
记得在去年的年度报告里，我是以这样一句话结尾的：“2010年我还会忙，还会累，还会踏踏实实地过日子，开开心心。”现在2010年走完了，回味这句话，自己觉得这一年日子过得还真是这样：忙、累、踏实、开心。
说到忙，今年主要是忙几件事。忙上班；忙回家探亲旅游；忙粉刷房子；忙扩大菜园；忙帮助女儿搬迁；忙看“非诚勿扰”。
早出晚归，上班依然是我们生活的中心，忙的重点。相对去年的裁员危机，今年总体来说，我们工作的稳定性是有保障的；公司的业绩和利润也令人满意。这一忙，可以说是定心丸，忙得踏实。心里踏实了，行动也就便利了。四月，我们终于没有后顾之忧，开开心心地踏上了回家探亲之旅。
回家探亲，是我们今年最开心最难忘的事。今年四月到五月间，我们不仅回到了阔别5年的家乡榕城，而且还回到了距榕城千里之外的山西老家。老家的山水景物，老家的风土人情，老家的亲人亲情，让我们惊喜开眼；让我们怦然心动；让我们感慨万千。在老家短暂的几天，想看的东西太多，想说的话也太多。看不完的，说不完的留在想象的空间里，多了几分美好、惦记和牵挂。于是今天，老家在我心目中和以往相比内涵是不同的。她已经不是一个模糊的概念，而是具体到那几座山，那几条水，那一片田野，那满山的黄花，那一个个院落，栩栩如生，呼之欲出。沐浴过老家的风雨，带着老家的尘土，我再次回到异国的家园。有一个问题时不时就冒出来：老家是什么？坐在大洋的另一边，远离老家万里之外，老家就装在我的心里。我对自己说：老家是爸爸出生长大的地方；是爷爷奶奶一辈子守护的家园；是召唤四面八方亲人回归故土的永久的根据地；是维系血脉和亲情不绝的源泉。挥手告别老家的那一瞬间，我知道自己某一天还会回来，还会回到老家和亲人们的怀抱，回到属于我的永远的家园。
这次回家探亲不仅见到了许多想见的人，也顺路去了一些想去的地方。台北3天，匆忙之中看了故宫、士林官邸、自由广场、101大楼、眷村遗址等，还拜访了阔别二十多年前移居到宜兰的老朋友一家，伫立在太平洋东岸享受着直面的海风。选的旅馆就在士林夜市旁边，为的是天天可以逛夜市，吃到腹饱肚圆。香港是旧地重游，看景观次要，探视姨母是我们的初衷。谁知巧遇姨母生日，定居菲律宾的表妹率全家来港贺寿，一见投缘，又是一种怎样的惊喜！途中在韩国仁川机场转机，夜晚要等8个小时，原以为会很辛苦，不料机场宽敞优雅、舒适卫生，还有免费的躺椅可以睡觉。记得在那里吃饭、逛店、上网、看画展，再小睡一会儿，8个小时悄然逝去，完全不觉得疲惫。
此外，特别值得一提的是：这次在大哥携队回老家的途中，我们还有幸参观了位于晋城附近的皇城相府和中国看月第一名山--珏山。皇城相府开城仪式的隆重壮观，卧于城中第一字典博物馆的珍藏，让人相恨见晚。上了珏山，环视四周，“一览众山小”的气势油然而生。峰顶台阶陡峭，庙宇轩然，蓝天白云近在咫尺，想象着古往今来中秋节那一天，拜月之人不辞辛苦，登高攀岩，为的是一睹那轮明月巧落这两峰之间的景致，岂能不生感慨！是呀，无论是“举头望明月，低头思故乡”的朴实，还是“明月几时有，把酒问青天”的豪放，动人的不都是那份孤寂和执著么？
探亲回来，正赶上耕种季节，育苗耕种，扩大菜园，我们又忙上了。今年我们试种了一些新品种，如：油豆角、琴江豆、紫苏、潺菜、冬瓜等。特别是冬瓜大获丰收，十几个喜人的冬瓜，让我们很陶醉了一阵子。秋凉后，我们的业余时间从菜地转到了室内，揭除旧墙纸，粉刷墙壁又成了我们下班后全力以赴要面对的事。虽然是又忙又累，但付出后能看到成果也是开心的补偿。
入冬，女儿的搬迁意外排上了议事日程。6月，女儿在职场上获得一次大的进步，希望得到更大的发展空间。11月，她应聘总部在纽约的一家时装公司，如愿以偿。接下来是看她在工作之余，自己胸有成足地处理找房子、退租约、moving sale、找搬家公司等等事宜，居然也办得井井有条。圣诞节过后第二天，女儿随着家当来到了大雪灾之后的纽约，开始了她人生新的一段旅程。女儿到达后的第二天，我们也开车到了纽约，为她安顿新家帮忙。这次帮助女儿搬迁自己感触很多。以往搬家，我们唱主角；这次不同，角色彻底转换，总调度是女儿，我们只能打打下手。离开纽约和女儿拥抱道别的瞬间，我真的觉得心里很踏实。放飞，这次是更轻松的放飞！
最后还要说说“非诚勿扰”。我不知道有没有确切的统计数据可以证明有多少人在看“非诚勿扰”，但我知道江苏卫视主办的这一节目确实很具影响力。因为忙，我平时基本不看连续性的电视节目，“非诚勿扰”是个例外。“非诚勿扰”的舞台是个人生的大舞台，美女是台面，男嘉宾不同的人生故事才是亮点。主持人孟非在“非诚勿扰”跨年演唱会上演唱了一首歌，有一句我印象特别深刻：“往前一步是幸福，退后一步是孤独”。
是的，幸福和孤独都是个人的选择。我们每个人都有选择自己生活方式和道路的权利，随之而来的是幸福还是孤独？
新年伊始，衷心祝福我的亲人和朋友们健康、幸福、快乐！
衷心祝福我不曾谋过面的网友们健康、幸福、快乐！
衷心祝福我自己和家人健康、幸福、快乐！
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