说说最浪漫的事

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jieri

平时在不同的场合,经常听人提起有关浪漫的话题。

最常听到这样的问话:

你喜欢浪漫么?
平时你会做浪漫的事吗?
你觉得什么是最浪漫的事?
能说说你做过的最浪漫的事是什么?


最常听到这样的回答:

是的,我喜欢浪漫。
我经常会做一些浪漫的事。
我觉得最浪漫的事是:...(最经典的答案是:和你一起慢慢变老。)
我做过的最浪漫的事是:...(最熟悉的答案是:曾经给她送过99朵玫瑰。)


今天,又是一年一度的情人节,浪漫自然又成了热门话题。牵着浪漫,热卖巧克力、玫瑰花;追着浪漫,铺陈烛光晚餐、豪华旅馆;浪漫也不可救药地流为一种庸俗的时尚。


较之形式和意念,真正的浪漫应该是意念大于形式的。在我看来,相爱的人“心有灵犀一点通”,情投意合,心心相印,才可能达到浪漫的最高境界。其实,在情人节这一天,吃不吃巧克力,送不送玫瑰花都不是最重要的;重要的是——他和她,是不是都很在意这一天的巧克力和玫瑰花?

说个更具体的例子:情人节这一天,某先生兴致勃勃买了一打玫瑰回家送太太,想给太太一个惊喜。不料,太太看见花开口就问“多少钱买的?”一听花了20美刀,脸也拉长了。劈头训诫道:“买什么花?我叫你买花了么?花这个冤枉钱买花,还不如把20美刀给我好了。我买什么不好?!”弄得先生灰溜溜的,什么兴致也没有了。

可见,有浪漫的玫瑰花,有想营造浪漫的他,可是没有会欣赏玫瑰花的她,也就不可能有浪漫。真正的浪漫,是要双方一起品味,相互欣赏才能感受到的美好。

今天,我虽然没有收到玫瑰花,但也有一个浪漫的惊喜。一个星期前,我们一起在花店选了一小盆水仙花回来养。这些天,花放在厨房的台子上,天天下班回来我们都会细心看看她有什么变化。今天,她赶在情人节开花了。小小的几朵白花,寄托了我们共同怀旧思乡的心绪和情愫,谁说她不如玫瑰浪漫呢?

补记:今天是2月27日,十几天过去了,情人节那天开放的水仙花这几天开得正旺,很是喜人。故为她的风姿再留影一张,是不是又多了一分浪漫的情趣?
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10 comments

Comment from: 风儿
风儿

心中有真情才能有真浪漫。

02/15/11 @ 08:28 am
Comment from: 米兰
米兰

浪漫属于心情永不老的人。

02/16/11 @ 08:26 am
Comment from:
xiaoping

有的人天生就承传了浪漫基因,有的人是后来才注入浪漫元素;前者与天俱来的浪漫气质与后者用心添加的浪漫色彩是有本质的不同。

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